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Post by BeccaThanYOU on Jul 6, 2010 15:02:36 GMT -5
...so one of my supervisors is not much older than me he's like in his 20's an we have a laugh in work but that's completely all it is, he's like one of those pretty boy man whore guys an he just does nothing for me, anyway today he like turned up at my house at 4 when I just got back from being in work with him all day to "hang out" an at first I was like cool, but he stayed for like 5 hours an he's only just left...I was hinting that I was tired an stuff an he just Ignored my hints an I was like nooooo(in my head obviously) the point is, is the right thing to do to be like I want you to leave now or just put up an hope they go soon  I'm too polite arggh rant over if you actually bothered to read it  |
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Post by BigFaker on Jul 6, 2010 15:09:06 GMT -5
Pretty boy man whore? Sounds like someone I know very well
But yeah, it's totally fine to tell him you want him to leave. Its your house and your space. If you don't you could be inadvertently give him the impression you're interested and 'leading him on' which could get messy in a number of ways.
Don't worry about offending him as he's your supervisor, you're not on the clock and if he tries to carry it over to work then he's on for a sackable offence.
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Post by BeccaThanYOU on Jul 6, 2010 15:13:43 GMT -5
Pretty boy man whore? Sounds like someone I know very well But yeah, it's totally fine to tell him you want him to leave. Its your house and your space. If you don't you could be inadvertently give him the impression you're interested and 'leading him on' which could get messy in a number of ways. Don't worry about offending him as he's your supervisor, you're not on the clock and if he tries to carry it over to work then he's on for a sackable offence. I'm not leading him on at all because I genuinly believe he doesn't have that sort of interest in me, I think he just wants someone to hang around with when he's on his own  |
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Post by BigFaker on Jul 6, 2010 15:33:44 GMT -5
Honestly sounds to me he's playing it cool but is ultimately looking for a leg over. Sounds like what I'd have done anyway in the past
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Post by b_Pooly on Jul 6, 2010 18:47:58 GMT -5
I'm thinking a punch to the face won't solve anything?
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Post by BeccaThanYOU on Jul 7, 2010 4:48:20 GMT -5
I'm thinking a punch to the face won't solve anything? ....well you never know until you try  |
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Post by b_Pooly on Jul 7, 2010 7:13:50 GMT -5
I'm thinking a punch to the face won't solve anything? ....well you never know until you try Well did you? |
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Post by BeccaThanYOU on Jul 7, 2010 7:17:09 GMT -5
....well you never know until you try Well did you? No, I couldn't be bothered to go to work or I might have done... |
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Post by Queen of the Damned on Jul 7, 2010 20:25:00 GMT -5
see how much I've missed! I didn't know you moved back out, you don't tell me anything  Congrats though!  |
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Post by b_Pooly on Jul 7, 2010 20:38:40 GMT -5
Yes, she tells me like a month later. . . though she can't wait to tell me what she does with her hair. . .  |
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Post by Queen of the Damned on Jul 7, 2010 20:45:09 GMT -5
Yes, she tells me like a month later. . . though she can't wait to tell me what she does with her hair. . . bbsy, the perfect girlfriend? |
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Post by b_Pooly on Jul 7, 2010 20:50:03 GMT -5
Yes, she tells me like a month later. . . though she can't wait to tell me what she does with her hair. . . bbsy, the perfect girlfriend? well there goes my good mood. . .  |
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Post by Queen of the Damned on Jul 7, 2010 21:00:18 GMT -5
bbsy, the perfect girlfriend? well there goes my good mood. . .  |
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Post by b_Pooly on Jul 7, 2010 21:01:42 GMT -5
well there goes my good mood. . . Is that thing edible? |
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Post by BeccaThanYOU on Jul 8, 2010 8:34:05 GMT -5
It certainly looks it.... |
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I'm too polite arggh 
